To The Future Father of my Children...

You all guys know that It's gonna be Father's day on Sunday, right? Well, as for me, it's gonna be another fatherless day :(( I'm used to it! Why do I get too emotional, then? It's been 20 years since my father deprived me of having a Dad and just so you know I'm 20 now. Yah right! I never had a father... since birth! That's mainly the reason why I always tell myself, I'm not gonna let my kids experience the same thing. I won't let them grow up without having a father to tap their shoulder for their acievements. A father who will criticize my future daughter's boyfriend. A father that will scold my kids for doing bad thing but not too much! I won't let him mess with a spoiler mom :)) So, what kind of FATHER do I want my children to have?



I want HIM to be the kind of FATHER who/that

• plays catch with my son
• attend school events of my children
• takes pictures of the memorable moments with my kids
• goes home early
• cooks even for just once every 3 months
•  lift my kids on his shoulder
• criticize my daughter's suitors
• screen my son's friends
• cracks jokes
• watch TV with us
• eat breakfast with us
• wakes up early in the morning to go to church with us
• wash the dishes with me
• spoil my daughter but not too much
• builds a tree-house for my kids to play
• fixes the house
• allows me to have a dog
• prioritizes us over anything
• and will make my kids cry when he gets sick

I have lots of things in mind but I'm lacking words to express it. I'm not looking for a PERFECT FATHER for my FUTURE KIDS .. all I want is GUY who will never leave us for anything and the one who has the same values as mine that FAMILY COME FIRST !!