Guys and Respect

So, I was talkin’ to one of my best guy friends n’ he was askin’ me for advice with his relationship. He told me how much pressure he feels sometimes about not screwing up so he doesn’t look like a jerk and all he really wants is to keep his girlfriend happy but no matter what he does or how hard he tries, she always gets upset with him for even the littlest things. So all his hard work basically goes to waste.

That just made me feel even worse about being a girl. Now, most guys think girls hate them just because they’re guys and there’s this horrible rep set up for them, like all guys are made to hurt girls. But I think guys get less credit n’ respect than they deserve. A lot of girls don’t see what they’re doing to their boyfriend. They think that just because he’s a guy, he’s automatically the one to blame. Now I think that shit’s unfair. Okay, yeah I’m guilty for once hating on guys and saying disrespectful things about them too. But I’ve realized that while girls are over here gettin’ all this sympathy for being heart broken, guys have it so much worse. They have to put up this big front, pretending they’re strong and nothing (fazes) them because that’s what guys are supposed to do. But girls, they got it easy. They can complain, they can bitch, they can cry. Cos’ that’s what girls are supposed to do.

But you know, not all guys are out there to hurt girls. Sometimes it’s the girl’s fault, she sets herself up. But the guy takes the blame for it because he’s the guy, in the eye of the public: he’s automatically the bad guy. Girls, you gotta cut guys some slack. Don’t get so butthurt over the little mistakes or the choices he makes like not knowing that “in 12 days” is your monthly anniversary or maybe wanting to hang out with his guy friends once in a while, or act tough infront of his crew instead of being lovey dovey with you like always, or playing COD instead of watching Mean Girls with you on a Sunday Morning. If you don’t wanna be let down, don’t expect so much from him. You’re lucky to have him. He’s there to protect you n’ support you. Guys can’t read minds and they don’t know everything, so don’t get mad when he orders take-out instead of cooking a 5 star meal for you two. Sometimes they need a heads up, they need help, insight, hints! And they try so hard, just for you. All a guy wants to do is keep his number one girl happy, at all times. You don’t think it hurts them when they know they made us cry ? Of course it does. N’ yeah, okay. Some guys are straight up jerks but it works like that for girls too you know, some girls are straight up bitches but it doesn’t classify the whole gender,remember that.

A relationship takes two people, two insights, and two minds trying to understand each other, it’s not all about you, respect that.

Source: thediamondkidd

How I Know I Love You...

AUG. 21, 2012  By MILA JARONIEC

I know I love you because I want to get you soup when you’re sick. Not only do I want to get it for you, I want to make it for you so you can eat something made with love instead of with crushed insects and preservatives. I know I love you because I want to slap anyone who hurts you, even if it’s your boss. I want to hold you when you’re having a nightmare and kiss the spot that hurts when you bump into something. I know I love you because I want you to be healthy even when you’re not sick, and that’s why I keep bugging you to change your crappy eating ways even though I know you’re over hearing about it.

Don’t Tell Me You Love Me ...

By CHARLOTTE GREEN

Of course I want to hear it. Of couse I have stayed up for more nights than anyone would want to admit, imagining what it would be like when you would finally tell me that you reciprocate all of my squirming, embarrassing feelings. It would be disingenuous for me to say that I don’t care — even if it would make this easier for all parties involved. We always want to hear each other say “it doesn’t matter.” We want to believe that we can behave however we’d like without any effect on those around us, that we hold no responsibility to one another.

And yes, to be perfectly honest, we don’t really owe each other anything. Being forthright and not intentionally hurting each other would be a good start to how we should treat each other, but when you throw my feelings around with complete impunity — do I really have a right to hold your feet to the fire? Do I really have some territorial claim to your behavior? You never said we were together. You never promised me something you weren’t going to deliver on. Yes, you misled me with enough half-truths and vague semi-promises to love me that I filled in the blanks with what I wanted to hear, but that was my fault. It was my choice to give you my heart, and you breaking it is not something I didn’t anticipate on some level.

I hate that I Loved you so ...

               It's been exactly 15 days now since we officially/finally called it off. It's been the hardest and loneliest 15 days of my life since I met you. Yeah! Laugh now! The strong woman you used to know had 15 weakest days of her life because of you! Those were the most miserable days of my life well not to mention those times when we're together because they're also miserable but I love how to feel miserable with you and it's not the case this time. Well, I'm not going to post here just to flatter you of how miserable my life was since we part ways. Well, you might somehow feel flattered because the following things I'm going to reveal are those crazy things I did when there were still "us". Things that I did just to profess my love for you. eew! Well, there will be some things that I'll be keeping to myself just to save myself from total humiliation and after all, I still have the word "privacy" in my vocabulary.

After All ...

I have so many reasons to leave you but there's just one thing that makes me stay. 

I love you.

Palabas na pala kahapon yung "A Beautiful Affair" starring John Lloyd and Bea sa ABS-CBN pero hindi talaga dahil sa palabas kung bakit ko nabanggit yung palabas na 'to kundi dahil sa theme song. Madalas kong naririnig yung "After all" na kanta kung saan-saan, minsan sa jeep, minsan sa radio at madalas yan tuwing linggo! Old song na kasi pero wag ka, iba pa rin ang mga kanta noon. CLASSIC.

I may not have mentioned everything about what's going between me and Mamark but one thing's for sure, we're doing great now. Much better than before I guess. I hope.

Baliw at tanga lang siguro ang magsasabing may perpektong relasyon. Yung relasyon na walang away, walang problema, walang pag-tatalo, walang selosan at walang tampuhan.

Lahat ng relasyon dumadaan sa mga pagsubok. Mga pagsubok na dapat nyong malampasan ng magkasama. Mga problema na dapat nyong harapin, hawak kamay. Bakit? Dahil pagkatapos ng lahat ng mga 'yun saka nyo lang masasabing matatag ang pundasyon ng inyong relasyon. Ang sarap kayang sabihin sa mahal mo na sa kabila ng lahat ng pinagdaanan nyo, heto pa rin kayo at patuloy na binubuo ang inyong mga pangarap kasama ang isa't-isa. 

Ikaw Pa Rin .. Walang Iba !

Walang Iba - Ezra Band

Ilang beses ng nag-away

Hanggang sa magkasakitan

Na 'di alam ang pinagmulan

Pati maliliit na bagay

Na napag-uusapan

Bigla na lang pinag-aawayan

Ngunit kahit na ganito

Madalas na 'di tayo magkasundo

Ikaw lang ang gusto kong makapiling

Sa buong buhay ko

MamCee: For the Love of Art

Here some of the pictures we love to edit ..

some of these are actually for our Anniversary .

The Wedding of the Century (EGG)

feelingero lang sa may ganyang desk .. bkt ba ?!

Happy 1st Anniversary Bheib !

How to Restore a Broken Relationship

One of the hardest things to go through in life is the breaking of a relationship with someone, especially if you were particularly close to that person and have known them for a long time. Once a relationship ends it can be very difficult to restore that relationship. The more intimate you are with someone, the deeper the pain goes when things go wrong. In this article we will discuss how to repair a relationship that has been broken. We will deal with relationships in general. In another article I will discuss how to repair a broken marriage. The good news is that relationships can be restored if everyone involved is willing to put the effort into the process of healing. It may take time, but the end result is worth the time and effort.

Obstacles to Healing

Before we can discuss the process of repairing a relationship, we need to consider what keeps restoration from happening in the first place.

Dear Future Wife

Dear Future Wife,

I don’t know where you are right now. I don’t know how you look like. I don’t know how you laugh, or how you cry. You’re probably with someone else right now. Or you might be alone just like me. I don’t know when our paths will cross. I don’t know when we can walk on the beach together, then watch stars at night and wait for a shooting star (and wish for forever if we see one, btw I’ve never seen a shooting star yet). We’ll sleep under the moonlight. We’ll watch the sunrise. I’ll cook breakfast for you. If we have kids, we’ll still do these things with them. We’ll go to church as a family, have a picnic after. I’ll teach them how to fly kites. You’ll teach them how to sing, or dance, or draw.

The list can go on forever. But I don’t know when these will happen. For now, all I can do is wait for you. And I’ll wait patiently for you. I know you’ll be worth the wait.

Love,

Your Future Husband

** I guess he has found his future wife :)) By the way I've posted the same letter in my blog here , and of course it's for my future husband ^^

You keep me Drowning in your love...

Don't pretend you're sorry
I know you're not
You know you got the power
To make me weak inside
Girl you leave me breathless
But it's okay 'cause
You are my survival
Now hear me say
I can't imagine life
Without your love
Even forever don't seem
Like long enough

'Cause everytime I breathe
I take you in
And my heart beats again
Baby I can't help it
You keep me
Drowning in your love
Everytime I try to rise above
I'm swept away by love
Baby I can't help it
You keep me
Drowning in your love

Maybe I'm a drifter
Maybe not
'Cause I have known the safety
Of floating freely
In your arms
I don't need another lifeline
It's not for me
'Cause only you can save me
Oh can't you see
I can't imagine life
Without your love
And even forever don't seem
Like long enough

'Cause everytime I breathe
I take you in
And my heart beats again
Baby I can't help it
You keep me
Drowning in your love
Everytime I try to rise above
I'm swept away by love
Baby I can't help it
You keep me
Drowning in your love

Go on and pull me under
Cover me with dreams, yeah
Love me mouth to mouth now
You know I can't resist
'Cause you're the air
That I breathe

'Cause everytime I breathe
I take you in
And my heart beats again
Baby I can't help it
You keep me
Drowning in your love
Everytime I try to rise above
I'm swept away by love
And baby I can't help it
You keep me
Drowning your love

Baby I can't help it
Keep me drowning
In your love
I keep drowning
In your love
Baby I can't help it
Can't help it no, no

'Cause everytime I breathe
I take you in
And my heart beats again
Baby I can't help it
You keep me
Drowning in your love
Everytime I try to rise above
I'm swept away by love
Baby I can't help it
You keep me
Drowning in your love

Love Begins with One Hello...

ONE HELLO

If you’re not afraid of what love brings
Then endings are beginnings of beautiful things
It’s a chance you’ll take
A chance you’ll win
If someone’s gonna find you,
First you gotta let them in

Coz love begins with one hello
The hardest part is over,
Now it’s easy letting go
One hello is how it starts
You might win it all
Or lose your heart

Nothing lasts FOREVER so let's be nothing :))

Let's fall in LOVE :)

Heartache is a part of the growing up that we do. It’s the price of loving and being loved. But you know, there are other prizes too. There are warm hugs, and kisses, and memories good and bad. It’s for you to choose. You can also have all of them if you are brave enough to keep on trying. It’s like the more entries you send, the more chances of winning. So don’t wimp out at the first sign of crisis in the relationship. Try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return, including all its liabilities.

Express your Love with Love Notes

Everyday relationship getting boring?

Most couples complain that their love life gets dull and boring with the passage of time and everyday routine becomes monotonous and grey and they start craving for moments of love and affection.

Love Notes are simple and cute way to show your love and spread small moments of large happiness.

Here’s How You Can Spread Love :

1) Love Note Inside Your Partner’s Reading Material :

Place a love note in your partner’s reading material such as a Novel, Office File, Recipe Book, Research Paper etc which you know that your partner is sure to read that particular day.

Make sure that you do not put it into their office documents that may end up going in others hands .

You can write statements such as :

” Put That Book Down And Gimme A Kiss”
” Are Those Papers More Important Than Me?”
“Hey!!! Are You Really Working Or Pretending To Work?”
” If Your Not Busy, Please Meet Me In The T.V Room. I Have Pop Corns And Drinks Ready.”
” How About You Read Me Like You Read These papers.”
“I Wish I Was This Book.”
” Are These Papers More Romantic Than Me?”

2) Love Notes Inside Their Lunch Packs :

If your partner carries snack or lunch to college or office, you can keep love notes in their food pack to give them that refreshing smile when they are set to eat after a tiresome work day.

You can write statements such as :

” Awe, Is My Baby Hungry?”
” That’s just the lunch. Sweet Dish is waiting for you home.”
” Hungry???”
” This isn’t just Food. Its my Love.”
” I added my secret ingredient….. LOVE.”
” I hope I added the salt just right.”

3) Love Notes Inside A laptop Or On A Mobile :

If your partner has a laptop you can sneak open the laptop and place a Love Note and close it so that next time they open the lid of the laptop they be surprised to find something romantic to smile on.

You can also place love notes on their mobile.

You can write statements such as :

“Don’t Forget To Mail/Sms Me Your Love.”
“Ring Ring….. Its Your Love Calling Ya.”
” Can You Type I Love You With That Keyboard?”
” I had no balance to text you. So writing a manual msg saying LOVE YA.”
” Good Morning Honey.”

4) Love Notes In Work Areas :

You can also have Love Notes in the work areas of partner so that they can have moments of smile after a hectic day of work.

Place love notes in their office drawers, table, kitchen, study room etc.

5) Love Notes Here And There

Try making it more spicy and romantic by placing love notes in place least expected.

Put them in their jeans/pant pocket, coat pocket, wallet, car dashboard, car keys, cupboard, shoes ( YES SHOES lol), bathroom table, medicine bottle, cigarette box etc.

 Source

Be Creative And Be Loving.

Anniversary Love Sonnet

By Joanna Fuchs

You’ve always been the one I counted on,
Through joy and sorrow, laughter, and some tears;
You keep me grounded; you’re my steady rock;
You’re there for me through days and months and years.

Your sweet devotion never, ever fails,
No matter what I say or what I do.
Sometimes I wonder what I ever did
To deserve someone as wonderful as you.

I love you with a love I can’t control;
I always want to be right by your side.
I want to touch you, kiss you and much more;
My passion for you cannot be denied.

Together we are satisfied and blessed;
Our marriage is the very, very best.

Credits

She loves him with all her heart

She is happy with a smile shown
Everyone loves her that was prone
She has it all; everything is great
She gets everything; that’s just her fate
She loves him with all her heart
They're always together… never apart…
Deep inside she wants to scream
Wants her life to just be a dream
Her life is falling apart
She was never happy; from the start
She tried to be happy but just put on an act
Her heart is broken… it just cracked.

Credits

He loves me... She loves me not...

He looks at her and sees beauty
She looks at him and sees stupidity
No one imagined that they would get together
but when they did,
Everyone thought they would stay forever
Forever is too long, sooner or later it will fall apart
When it did she had a broken heart
She acted like nothing was happening
but deep inside she was dying
For a while she was fine
never to realize she was blind
that she is still in love
Her mind started to push and shove
She hates him
but loves him
She's starting to realize she wants to get back together
but this time to make it last forever
she wonders if he still loves her
if he still wants her
if she is still the beauty he once saw
He said i love you and never let you go
but he lied just to get what he wants
he said that he would never lie to her
and guess what
she believed him
now shes crying
crying for him
but does he care
she knows the answer its NO
Its starting to be to much for her to bare
and sadly he let her go
He hates her and she does not know why
and she loves him and it makes her cry
she talked to him all night

The mystery behind love-hate relationships

People who see their relationships as either all good or all bad tend to have low self-esteem, according to a series of seven studies by Yale researchers published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
In two of the studies participants were asked to indicate as quickly as possible whether each of 10 adjectives applied to their relationship partner, adjectives such as caring and warm or greedy and dishonest. Partners in this study included college roommates and mothers.
Individuals low in self-esteem were considerably slower to respond when negative and positive adjectives were alternated than when similar adjectives appeared in blocks. Those high in self-esteem were equally quick to respond to the adjectives no matter how they were presented.

I Lovingly Hate You!